

The challenge today is to answer the question, would I rather date someone plain with an amazing personality or someone beautiful with a plain personality?
Seven things that cross my mind a lot…
(Letter to my Daughter)
My darling little girl,
We have just celebrated your ninth birthday. Where did the time go? I want you to know that there is no need to do anything to make me happy. I love you in your petulant moments, through your anger and tears and also in your joyous times. There is no award or trophy you need to gain to win this love. My darling, this world has already tried to box you in, and label you. We wont let them. You are just as defiant as I, already with a finely-tuned inbuilt detector for nonsense. You are not just “pretty,” “dramatic,” “artistic,” “athletic,” “good at maths.” These are components of what makes you who you are, but my darling, you are not one-dimensional. I pray you never pay mind to anyone that says you are. You came to me perfect, with a grand purpose for your exquisite life. It’s great fun slowly uncovering what that purpose is, watching as your destiny is unfurled through a series of clues.  It presents as your interests, the songs and movies you love, the colours and books you adore. It presents in the things you say. Hold onto your sense of self, and take pride in being an individual. Your kind heart and sensitive soul will hold you in good stead. I will love you forever. I knew you long before you were born. I knew you from my dreams. With all my love, Mummy xxx
What fills me with glee?




These things also fill my cup:
Coffee! Almonds! Birds! Music! Comfy shoes! Spare time! Spring! Going on a long walk! Adventure! Parks! Musicals and Theatre Productions! Colour! Laughter! Books! Hearing children sing!
Things that don’t float my boat:
Fundamentalist anything. Loud neighbours. Cars that refuse to start. Horror or crime movies. People that shout. Door-to-door sellers of anything. People with no empathy. Packaging; why is there so much packaging on everything?! Bullies. Telephones and speaking on them. Flat-packs of furniture.
Dear Kitty has nominated me for her Real Neat Blog Award! Thankyou my friend! She writes: “Late in 2014, I made this new award: the Real Neat Blog Award. There are so many bloggers whose blogs deserve more attention. So, I will try to do something about that 🙂
It is the first award that I ever made. I did some computer graphics years ago, before I started blogging; but my computer drawing had become rusty 🙂
The ‘rules’ of the Real Neat Blog Award are: (feel free not to act upon them if you don’t have time; or don’t accept awards; etc.):
1. Put the award logo on your blog.
2. Answer 7 questions asked by the person who nominated you.
3. Thank the people who nominated you, linking to their blogs.
4. Nominate any number of bloggers you like, linking to their blogs.
5. Let them know you nominated them (by commenting on their blog etc.)”
My seven questions are:
1. Where do most visits to your blog come from?
The United States, Australia, UK and Canada. Also heavily featured are Spain, Japan, Netherlands, Malaysia, Italy and many more beautiful places!
2. What is your favourite sport?
Um, I don’t have one! I was never a sporty kid, although I admire many sports people. I do like baseball. There is something quite magical about it, as depicted in Field of Dreams and the movie about Babe Ruth.
3. What has been a special moment for you so far in 2015?
So many! Celebrating my daughter’s birthday, beginning our home schooling journey, watching my daughter play Titania in A Midsummer Night’s Dream, happy times with friends, and starting work on Siren Empire, a beautiful website.
4. What is your favourite quote?
I have many! A recent favourite is, “My life is perfect, even when its not”-Ellen DeGeneres.
5. What was your favourite class when still at school?
Art and English.
6. Anything you had wished to have learned earlier?
To love myself, and be kinder to myself.
7. What musical instrument have you tried to play?
Keyboards.
My nominees are:

I have attended many concerts in my time. Some that come to mind are:
The Eurythmics. I was a child and they were extraordinary!
Tim Finn and Paul Kelly at the Opera House. Incredible songwriters.
Lolo Lovina. They pierce your soul.
Pink, because she is wonderful and great fun!
Katy Perry. My little girl adores her, and I must say, I do too.
The Old Married Couple. Gorgeous humans I am proud to call friends.
I have been to many Indie concerts in small venues, as well as scores of festivals. Sydney has at least one festival each week! It’s a great way to uncover new talent. I always buy the cd’s. I haven’t even mentioned theatre and musicals, both of which I love. In the years to come I hope to get to many more concerts!
The divine Ritu of But I Smile Anyway is having a big birthday soon! Her dearest wish is to get to 1000 followers. She is a loyal, loving, kind and sweet blogger, so if you haven’t already started following her blog, now is your opportunity!